Here is a topic that we've wrote about before, but it doesn't seem to get old or change. I will expand it this time to talk about pictures altogether, not just penis pics.
I have recently been the lucky (unlucky?!) recipient to an unsolicited penis pic. The conversation went something like this:
Unknown male: Hey you! :)
Me: No reply
Unknown male: Do you have more pics of yourself?
Me: No reply
Unknown Male: Unsolicited penis pic!!!
Me: Oh my eyes!!
I get that somewhere there has to be women that don't mind such out of the blue random pictures, or no male would send them, I'm not one of those women. Or is it one of those things that men like to receive, so they send them to a woman thinking that's what she would like to receive?! This brings me to my next topic.
Men and women share a lot of similarities, they also have some very vast differences, one being what we (as women) like to see and what you men enjoy looking at. Notice that there is an endless supply of magazines, sites, etc catering to men's needs for visual pleasure, and that's fine, I'm all for men having the options everywhere. If you notice even magazines for women,(of the naked male physic) the options are very limited, why is that you ask?! To answer your burning question, women are visual, but not the same ways that men are.
Because women fall in love through their brain more so than their eye's, it really isn't that far of a stretch to imagine that the same types of pictures don't have the same effect on women, as they do men.
So what is it, that the more delicate feline like women want to see? Do you send women pictures at all? Is there a picture type etiquette amongst women, that you guys haven't been able to crack the code on? There are lots of variables at play here, but I will try to broaden my answer to encompass different types of relationships or non relationships.
1) If you've never had a conversation with the woman...DON'T send her a random dick pic! Especially if you haven't even exchanged pleasantries with her, or unless you don't want to ever have an exchange with her....then hit "send" but, I'm not responsible for what type of social media that she reports you to...I'm just sayin.
2) If you haven't had the conversation with her regarding said pix.
3) You're more obsessed with the size than we are, so unless we've inquired, just don't!
4) If you share the smaller version of yourself with one woman... aka a relationship, simply ask her.
How do we know what a picture contains, what if I open that ish up in front of my grandmother, boss, gardener or anyone else for that matter?!
Also just let me mention, I'm not opposed to pictures, but there is a time and a place for everything.
So what is a guy to do, you want to share, but now I've frightened you off forever?!
Let's back up to the brainy creatures that us women are, so what is it that a woman would like or want?
If you've noticed the "50 Shades of Gray" phenomenon or know about the up rise of porn for women, the biggest difference, is that porn for women has a story line, it includes a ton of seduction and anticipation. How does this help you? I don't think that women are given enough credit for their imaginations, we have very vivid, wild imaginations. Therefore we are usually more open to a picture that is suggestive, but gives us room to us our imagination around it.
A large portion of men like to masturbate with either pictures of women or porn. Women aren't as much into the pictures, women use their imaginations or a lot of women watch lesbian porn. Which makes sense, because lesbian porn focuses on women and her pleasure, whereas porn is more focused on the male perspective, his p.o.v and his pleasure.
So what does this all mean to you? If you are wanting to send a picture to a woman, to really get her attention, take a sexy suggestive picture...which could consist of:
A) You wearing clothing, emphasis of your stomach, or the happy little trail that leads down from your belly button.
B) Jeans unbuttoned or unzipped.
C) Shirtless with jeans unbuttoned, the options are really endless.
Women like to use their brain, imaginations, we love seduction and anticipation, anything that conveys that in a picture, is right up our alley. I'm not saying that a naked picture is always out of the question, but talk to her about it, and she will let you know.
Don't send pictures with the expectation of getting pictures, a woman will send you pictures when she sees fit. Speaking her language, giving her the pictures that she enjoys looking at will get you further, than sending what "you" want to see. Again timing is everything, if she is in mommy mode or work mode, pictures may not always be as well received or how you intended them. Perhaps place a warning, giving her the heads up on a picture, this saves her the awkwardness of opening one up in front of co workers or her boss. Communication is your best defence/offense, learning what she likes, what she thinks is hot, will win you tons of accolades. A well played picture in the morning, can having her anticipating you and your next encounter.